Ah, this is where our stories start to differ.
Not once during the course of my play time today did I switch over to Spec - nice try though. But yes, I would check on the scores to see if someone was sitting and not joining, and yes - would drop out a message for people to join. So yes, you have that part correct. But as for going Spec or afk - no, that is simply not true.
Now for the "5 secs and going about my business". While I was typing up your ban, I continued to hear your attacks - so saying that you went about your business simply is not true either.
And neither is the 60 secs tops true either. I gave a warning, waited for a bit and got no response. No I wasn't timing it to the minute, but you sat on Spec long enough for me to then kick you.
Regardless of whether or not you've seen me in the server, I have been aware of both you and Jim, and really had no problems before now - but that simply doesn't excuse you acting like an ass to me when all I did was kick you for not joining (which is stated in the rules), and then ask you to stop attacking me when you did get back in.